Savage Love Live at Denver’s Oriental Theater last week was epic. But we couldn’t get to all the audience questions during the show, so I’m going to race through as many that went unanswered as I can in this week’s column . . .
A: Judging by how many people tell me they’re having a hard time finding sex-positive, kink-positive, open-positive, and poly-positive therapists, I would definitely file “sex-positive therapist” under “world needs more of.” Chase that dream!
Q: My boyfriend told me that women orgasm only 60 percent of the time compared to men. I said I want orgasm equity. How do I navigate his pansy-assed male ego to find a solution?
A: It’s a catch-22: people are afraid to come out to their closed-minded families as queer or poly or sex workers or atheists, but closed-minded families typically don’t open their minds until after their queer or poly or sex working or nonbelieving kids come out to them. Tell them your truth and stand your ground.
Q: Can I want to be monogamous without any reasoning? My boyfriend would probs be in an open relationship, but I’m not interested for no reason in particular.
A: My expectations for sterling silver, crystal stemware, and fuckable ass are the same: I want it sparkling.
