What Should Lesbians Rsvp To A Trump Wedding

Q: I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am only interested in dating straight men. Is that some kind of phobia? Or is it OK for that to be a preference? I’ve always wanted to ask someone this but I’m afraid of being thought of as having a phobia. A: I would send my regrets along with a broken toaster and the wrong receipt....

March 11, 2022 · 1 min · 168 words · Mona Edwards

What Six Chicago Bartenders Would Drink If They Were Stranded On A Desert Island

The bartender: Jacyara de Oliveira of Sportsman’s Club The drink: Caipirinha The bar: La Sirena Clandestina During the year Oliveira spent living in Brazil during college, she often drank the country’s national cocktail, the caipirinha—a simple drink consisting of muddled limes, sugar, crushed ice, and cachaca, a liquor made from distilled sugarcane juice. Oliveira, whose family is Brazilian, also drank variations like the caipiroska (made with vodka) and caipirissima (made with rum)....

March 11, 2022 · 7 min · 1331 words · Michael Potter

A Chicagoland Emo Obscurity Resurfaces To Influence The Genre S Fifth Wave

The emerging fifth-wave emo scene has given me a great excuse to stay glued to social media. I’m not shy about my enthusiasm for emo, and I got a little giddy last month watching a cross-section of Twitter music fanatics go wild for pop-minded Chicago emo songwriter Eric Reyes, who records as Snow Ellet. Hugo Reyes had included Snow Ellet’s music in a great Medium roundup of recent Chicagoland emo on April 19, and after interest snowballed on Twitter, on May 7 Pitchfork ran a review of Snow Ellet’s debut EP, the March release Suburban Indie Rock Star....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 217 words · Christopher Simmerman

A Few Queer Dilemmas

Q: I am a 40-year-old woman; I came out when I was 16. When I was 17, I met M and we dated for eight years. M was a horrible human being—emotionally and occasionally physically abusive. M still sends me the occasional (creepy) e-mail, wishing me a happy birthday or giving me updates on people I don’t really recall. I don’t respond. A few years back, I got an e-mail saying that M was now “Mike....

March 10, 2022 · 3 min · 464 words · John Samora

Best Honorary Member Of Chicago S Footwork Scene With A Day Job At A Steel Mill In Gary

Jlin Its Chicago roots notwithstanding, footwork is a global phenomenon now, with vital communities popping up as far afield as Japan and Poland. So it was no leap at all for this adventurous, fast-paced dance music to reach Gary, Indiana, home to footwork producer Jlin, aka Jerilynn Patton. Her steel-mill job keeps her grounded in Gary, but the Chicago scene has gladly claimed her as its own: footwork progenitor RP Boo has gravitated toward her as a mentor, offering her words of encouragement and feedback, and she’s a member of Bosses of the Circle, a collective led by Low End producer DJ Roc....

March 10, 2022 · 1 min · 143 words · Ebony Snyder

Bronzeville S Best

“Lady Mocha has come to Bronzeville bearing the gift of fashion,” says William Salaam of his wife, Treva Johnson Salaam, aka Lady Mocha. The pair, both born and raised in Chicago, opened Bronzeville Boutique by Lady Mocha in October 2009 in the graystone where Gwendolyn Brooks once wrote the poem “Kitchenette Building” (a mural-size portrait of Brooks is next to the store’s display window). Johnson Salaam’s keen eye is apparent in the garments she picks for the store, purchased wholesale online and at apparel shows all over the country....

March 10, 2022 · 1 min · 192 words · Stewart Ford

Domestic Violence Survivors Battle To Keep Legally Protected Housing Subsidies

Just before Christmas 2019, “Katherine,” who asked her real name not be used for fear of retaliation from her alleged abuser, walked into an informal hearing held by the Chicago Housing Authority (CHA) that would decide the fate of her and her five children. She had received a notice from the agency that it planned to terminate her Section 8 Housing Choice Voucher (HCV)—assistance that the 44-year-old had depended on for the past ten years to afford her East Garfield Park apartment....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 386 words · Thelma Nestor

Doug Martsch Of Built To Spill Should Direct A Superhero Movie

Clayton Hauck Built to Spill at the 2009 Pitchork Music Festival Like Mission of Burma’s The Sound, the Speed, the Light, the Feelies’ Here Before, and a good many records by Neil Young (who might well have invented this particular subgenre), the recently released new Built to Spill album, Untethered Moon, is the sort of guitar-driven rock record that feels like catching up with an old friend. The solos are satisfying both technically and emotionally, despite not breaking any new ground....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 282 words · Christine Hendershot

Dystopia On The Air

Is life on Earth doomed? Beginning October 19, Steppenwolf for Young Adults is presenting Animal Farm as a radio play (a first for the program) as part of the 2020/21 season, adapted by Steve Pickering for radio from Althos Low‘s original stage adaptation and directed by Lili-Anne Brown. And on October 13, Northlight Theatre is taking part in a nationwide, simultaneous broadcast of Berkeley Rep’s radio play adaptation of Sinclair Lewis’s novel It Can’t Happen Here....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 334 words · Charles Mello

Former Chicagoan John Yingling Completes The First Episode Of His World Underground Webseries

Courtesy of John Yingling Speak Chinese or Die Back in the summer of 2013, tireless former Chicago scene documentarian John Yingling—currently residing in Missoula, Montana—announced that he would be taking his operation global. He’d made a name for himself around town by running the website Gonzo Chicago, in which he filmed and photographed every underground show he came across for years before relocating to Montana, where he continued doing the same thing....

March 10, 2022 · 1 min · 195 words · Richard Marinaccio

Haymarket Is A Workmanlike Ode To The Working Man

Yes, Underscore Theatre’s reworked 2016 “new folk musical” about the titular violent 1886 Chicago labor protest and its hopelessly corrupt aftermath features singing and dancing anarchists (who play musical instruments to boot). But both Nick Thornton’s no-frills choreography and Robert Ollis’s straight-ahead musical direction are fittingly—if unengagingly—workmanlike. The production’s general lack of razzle-dazzle may suit the subject matter, but it makes for a rather featureless two-plus hours. Part of the problem stems from the insular material....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 268 words · Felipe Rivera

I Am Going To Die Alone And I Am Not Afraid Offers Holocaust Stories Of Resistance With Universal Power

Anna Gelman directs the world premiere of I Am Going to Die Alone and I Am Not Afraid, an ensemble-devised play about the Holocaust that feels hauntingly contemporary. A mostly bare stage decorated with lines full of white and beige clothing hanging near the rafters—left as if forgotten by a whole neighborhood suddenly vanished—hosts a versatile group of six actors, who tell, sing, and dance tales of resistance, bravery, and survival....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 310 words · Lynn Pugh

Indian Cream Liqueur Doesn T Go With Campari And Other Lessons From Somrus

Julia Thiel Somrus, in the bottle and the glass Last fall Burr Ridge resident Pankaj Garg and his wife Swati released Somrus, an Indian cream liqueur—the first product in what they intend to be an entire line of Indian-inspired drink products. In Hindi, the name apparently means “nectar of gods,” which seems like a pretty high bar to set, but it does sound nice. Julia Thiel The Somarita (left) and Balancing Act I was hoping, though, that by some miracle the combinations of ingredients in the two cocktails would work....

March 10, 2022 · 1 min · 200 words · Kathleen Sutton

Is Illinois Ready For A Potential Influx Of Stoned Drivers

If recreational marijuana finally becomes legal in Illinois, driving to a cannabis dispensary will be as commonplace as swinging by the liquor store. But are Illinois police officers ready to keep the streets safe from a potential influx of stoned drivers? And can police even tell when a driver is stoned? The screening process can also include a toxicology exam involving a blood or urine test. A urine test is problematic, because the screening doesn’t return definitive results saying whether the person tested was under the influence of a specific drug at the time the test was taken, experts said....

March 10, 2022 · 1 min · 203 words · Mark Ford

Japanese Trumpeter Toshinori Kondo Pays A Visit To Honor Late Saxophonist Fred Anderson

Since 1990, local percussionists Hamid Drake and Michael Zerang have held annual sunrise concerts on the morning of the winter solstice. Over time the series has expanded to include performances on adjacent mornings as well as evening concerts that bring in the duo’s past and present collaborators. This year the final evening show promises to be something quite special. It will honor an association of Drake’s that began even earlier than the solstice series....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 350 words · David Harris

Jason Bourne Works On His Personal Problems In Jason Bourne

Jason Bourne has daddy issues, and he’ll stop at nothing to work them out. The fifth installment in the popular spy-thriller franchise about an amnesiac CIA assassin, Jason Bourne supposedly deals with such topical issues as cybersecurity and civil unrest, but the characters’ motivations for inflicting damage to people and property seem entirely personal. As the film opens, our hero (Matt Damon) is off the grid somewhere in Greece, making his living as a bare-knuckle brawler....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 414 words · Michael Sanders

Latin Music Revolutionary Eddie Palmieri Carries On His Mission To Push Salsa And Jazz Forward

Eddie Palmieri will turn 81 in December, but the pianist and bandleader hardly seems ready for retirement. As one of the most revolutionary and paradigm-shifting figures in the history of Latin music, he’s certainly earned the right to take it easy, and while he’s definitely quieted down on the recording front, this year’s Sabiduría/Wisdom (Ropeadope)—his first new studio album in a dozen years—makes it clear his work isn’t finished. Working with a fiery new band of virtuosos including jazz heavies such as bassist Luques Curtis and drummer Obed Calvaire, Palmieri dives into a batch of originals from some of the angles he’s utilized over decades of musical innovation, melding soul, funk, and jazz with heavy salsa forms....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 259 words · Louis Spinney

Lightfoot S First Council Meeting Excites But Sheds Little Light On Procedures

Rossana Rodriguez-Sanchez, newly elected alderman of the 33rd Ward, squeezed into the corner of a City Hall elevator, grinning and clutching a Starbucks cup. Others piled in only to disembark a few seconds later on the second floor, where dozens lined up to enter council chambers for the first meeting of Chicago’s legislature presided over by Mayor Lori Lightfoot. By 9:45 the aldermen streamed in. Byron Sigcho-Lopez, freshman alderman from the 25th Ward, explained to reelected 37th Ward alderman Emma Mitts how to pronounce “Sigcho....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 343 words · John Duffy

Not Coming To The Disney Channel Michel Gondry S Microbe Gasoline

No one in his right mind would accuse a filmmaker of having too much imagination, but French filmmaker Michel Gondry has so much that his flights of fancy can overwhelm his movies. When I think of Gondry, I often remember that dream sequence in The Science of Sleep (2006) in which Gael García Bernal gropes around with giant papier-mache hands—the director has an enormous hunger for ideas, but sometimes he can’t pick anything up....

March 10, 2022 · 2 min · 342 words · Chris Delarosa

The Inequity Buster

When I heard that Mayor Lightfoot had teamed up with Samuel Skinner—former White House chief of staff under George H.W. Bush—to produce a study on how to eliminate inequities in Chicago, I raced to the report to find any references to TIFs. But, alas, there’s only one itty-bitty reference to the tax increment financing program possibly helping fund Black-owned businesses. It’s on page 44, if you want to see it yourself....

March 10, 2022 · 1 min · 154 words · John Mcneil